10 Simple Tips to Enhance Sexual Energy and Deepen Your Experience

This blog post explores ten easy tips that can transform your sexual experiences by increasing your energetic sensitivity, leading to heightened physical pleasure. By applying these simple shifts, you can unlock deeper intimacy and reach spiritual heights through satisfying, connected sex.

If you'd prefer to watch a video instead of reading this post, check out the video below on my YouTube channel "Elevate with Em" for a detailed exploration of the same topic!

1. Mind Off, Body On

The first principle of tantric-style sex is turning off your mind and fully turning on your body. Let go of thoughts, fantasies, and distractions like sexy outfits or dirty talk—these only engage your mind. To feel the highest bliss, your mind needs to be empty, relaxed, and focused on the present moment, like a meditative state.

2. Bodily Awareness

Replace mental thinking with pure bodily awareness. Be fully present in your body, giving complete attention to your senses. Let your mind simply witness what is happening without analysis or judgment. An easy exercise to boost this awareness: lightly touch your left arm with your right fingertips and notice where your focus is—on your arm or fingertips? During sex, apply this same awareness to all areas of your body, allowing your sensitivity to fully open up.

3. From Doing to Being

In conventional sex, there’s a tendency to overstimulate and rush for pleasure, which often leads to numbness and tension. True sensitivity, however, requires relaxation. Shift from focusing on doing—using tricks or over-stimulation—toward simply being. When your body is relaxed, it naturally opens to more intense sensations and energetic flow.

4. Slow Downshift

Slowing down is key to experiencing the smallest energetic sensations. Conscious, tantric-style sex isn’t about rushing to a climax—it’s about savoring every moment. The slower and more present you are, the more heightened your awareness and pleasure will be. Sometimes, intense pleasure comes from stillness, feeling the subtle energy moving within.

5. Eyes as Channels

The eyes are not just windows to the soul; they are channels for sharing spiritual energy. During sex, make eye contact to create a deeper energetic connection. Rather than staring, soften your gaze. Imagine your pupils as black holes, absorbing everything they see. For an internal focus, close your eyes, or even gently focus on your third eye to enhance the spiritual experience. Play with your eyes—sometimes open, sometimes closed.

6. Foreplay with Breasts

For women, tantric foreplay should begin with the breasts rather than the genitals. A woman’s sexual energy awakens through her heart space, so gentle touches on her chest help activate this energy. Only once her energy is fully awakened and alive is she energetically ready to engage in deeper connection with her partner.

7. Gentle Penetration

Penetration should be slow and gentle, especially at first, to maintain sensitivity and avoid numbing the experience with too much friction. A tantric secret is to use soft penetration—entering before the man is fully erect. This gradual build-up heightens sensitivity for both partners, opening them to a more profound experience of pleasure.

8. Open & Relax the Vagina

Women often believe that tightening their pelvic muscles increases pleasure, but this can actually create tension and block sensation. Instead, the goal should be to relax and open the deep layers of the vagina, allowing for deeper penetration and increased sensitivity. This relaxed approach boosts blood flow and heightens sensations for both partners.

9. Maintain Genital Connection

Maintaining genital connection during sex sustains the energetic flow between partners. Imagine keeping a charging cable plugged into a socket instead of constantly unplugging it. Moving together while staying connected creates a flowing, continuous exchange of energy and pleasure. With practice, you can even change positions without breaking that connection.

10. Patience & Practice Pays

Shifting to this tantric approach may take time, especially if you’re used to a more mentally active or physically stimulating form of sex. Practice relaxing into awareness and sensitivity in everyday life. Don’t feel pressured to completely abandon conventional sex—play with this more mindful, sensual attitude and see what happens. But be warned: once you experience these deeper states, you might not want to go back.

Concluding Words

I hope these 10 tips offer you practical insights to enhance your sexual energy and transform your experience. Even small adjustments can lead to profound shifts, allowing you to explore the spiritual heights of deeply satisfying sex.

Share your thoughts or experiences in the comments! And if you're looking to further elevate your intimate experiences, check out the related posts or videos. Thank you for reading—enjoy the magic of your sexuality, and see you in the next post/video!

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